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The period of rapid physical and mental growth in toddlers is a thrilling yet often nerve-wracking time for parents. As their little ones embark on the journey of learning to walk, parental worry can sometimes morph into overprotective behavior, driven by a fear of falls and injuries. However, this well-intentioned concern can inadvertently hinder a child's development, according to Child, Adolescent, and Family Psychologist Rosdiana Setyaningrum.
Overprotective Parenting: A Barrier to Exploration
Rosdiana explains that a telling sign of overprotective parenting is when parents hold back toddlers from crawling or walking due to fear of them getting dirty or falling. This seemingly protective instinct, however, contradicts the crucial role walking plays in a toddler's exploration of their surroundings.
"Anything that stops babies and toddlers from exploring their environment is a sign that parents are being overprotective," Rosdiana emphasizes. While it's natural to prioritize a child's safety, falling and learning to rise again are integral parts of a toddler's development.
The Importance of Letting Go: A Balancing Act
Children require both physical and mental security. Constantly carrying or catching a child before they fall can ironically create a sense of insecurity, leading them to feel unsafe in their environment. This overdependence on parental protection can stifle their ability to explore and learn independently.
Instead of shielding them from every stumble, parents should prioritize a safe environment for their child's exploration. If the floor is free from slippery surfaces, rocks, or hazards, allow them to walk independently. "By falling, children learn they can get back up. Let them explore," concludes Rosdiana.
The key lies in finding a delicate balance between safeguarding children and granting them the freedom to learn and grow. This equilibrium allows toddlers to cultivate independence and confidence while experiencing a sense of security and safety.
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